While it is different for everyone, many times fetishes and kinks develop from sexual experiences during or around puberty. The definition of what is and isn’t a kink varies widely, but it is estimated that half of the population has at least some interest in them, while a third have engaged in them at least once. However, others argue that not only does it not do that, it actually replaces intimacy. Some people say that the kinks are a way to increase intimacy between sexual partners. It is in contrast to “vanilla” or “straight” sexual practices that are considered “normal” by society’s standards.Ī person who is into a “kink” is someone who practices sexual fetishes. The term comes from the idea of a “bend” *like a kink in a hose* in a person’s sexual behavior. “Kinkiness” refers to unusual sexual practices, fantasies, or concepts. We may practice them behind closed doors, but we’re not the only ones partaking in them.įetishes are, in fact, incredibly common, and it is actually weirder to commit to a twice-a-week, in-the-dark missionary experience than indulge in a fetish or two. And yet, many freaky fetishes are far from this. Well, in purest terms, it means notably unusual or untypical. Why do we think that sexual fetishes are bad? Is it because of the guilt and shame that hundreds of years of proselytizing religious fervor have forced us to associate with so-called “abnormal” sexual pursuits? “Weird” is a peculiarly 20th and 21st-century insult-but what does it mean? Sexual exploration in a loving relationship is normal. Rubbing genitals on strangers in publicĪ healthy sex life, the experts tell us, is a creative sex life. Restraints combinations (wrists to waist, etc. Love: means that the activity figures among the sub’s favorites. Like: means that the sub likes the activity at least on an occasional basis. Okay: means that the sub has no problem with the activity but it has no special appeal to her. Desire: means that the sub has little or no experience with the activity but greatly wants to try it. Curious: means that the sub have no (or very little) experience with the activity but that she find the idea interesting. Hmm…: means that the sub has no (or very little) experience with the activity and that she is not really curious about it either. Dislike: means that the sub don’t like the activity but would not object if ordered to. Those can be due to either a VERY strong dislike, fear or disdain for that activity in general but that it is not impossible to negotiate them under some special circumstances. Soft limit: means that the sub has great reticences towards that activity. Limit: means that the activity is a hard limit and that the sub will NEVER do that activity under any circumstances ever. The Almost Perfect Male Dom/Female Sub Checklist! So it?s nice to use them to discuss or negotiate certain activities but perhaps not-so-good to rely on them only. * Last: Note that has much has I recommend using lists, especially for beginners, they are only a tool and don?t replace good communication. I guess I could perhaps try to make a more general one some day but I?m not quite sure when I?ll find the time so I make no promise here When I started to write it, it was only for my persona use and I never thought of posting it anywhere until now. But I guess anyone can arrange that to their liking as wellĪlso, like the title says, this list is for male doms/female subs? So I?m very sorry if this doesn?t apply to everyone. I have also arrange the ?willingness scale? Instead of using numbers from 0 to 5 like many other lists do I put a one-word answer choice. It is still not quite as ?perfect? as it could have been? and this is one of the reason I think it could be a good idea to post it here: If anyone can spot something I may have missed just let me know and I could still edit the post and add it to the original list ^-^ After my reply to freakxxx in the Training Your Sub thread someone convinced me to post here that checklist I made up a few months ago? I never found a list that seemed complete enough before so with the help of four different checklists found on the web plus another comprehensive list of fetishes I came up with my own.
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